Ancestral, spiritual and emotional forces are strong that push us towards sexual mistakes. Other Blessed brothers were as surprised by their actions as you were by yours, and their wives were likewise as shocked as yours was.
And they know as well as you do that it is very challenging to repair the damage to the marriage. You may be switching between the tremendous guilt and shame, and frustration with your wife's endless anger, blaming and mistrust.
Your children may be shunning you, as are friends if they know. Though both you and your wife are isolated by your shame and embarrassment, at least your wife elicits sympathy if she shares her turmoil with a friend. You probably feel very alone. Even if you find insight and comfort in a counselor’s office, you long to be able to compare notes with a fellow Unificationist in a similar situation.
Faithful Men is for you. The group’s name declares your intention to restore yourself and your marriage. You'll appreciate being able to talk freely with other guys who understand your values and concerns, and your wife may feel reassured that you are getting the support you need.
Who: A group of 4-5 men.
What: Together we explore the reasons why good men like you have affairs and how you can restore your wife's trust and your self-respect.
When: We meet for an hour on Monday nights 9:00pm EST, starting April 16.
Where: By Zoom video conferencing. Encrypted to protect your privacy.
Cost: $140 per month or $400 for 3 months.
Financial difficulties? Let me know. We'll find a solution so you can receive the support you need.
To find out more, contact me. I will keep it confidential.
Not sure that group coaching is for you? Try personal coaching.
Payment will be through secure Paypal. I will email you a request when you sign up and you may pay by debit or credit card or through your Paypal account. This request will be sent at the same time each month.
Group membership is month to month, and you can stop at any time. However there are no partial or full refunds for the time left over in the month.